business matters

i totally abhor working with people who take every single discussion and decision-making process with such torture, pain, agony, and stress. it kills so much productivity, creativity, happiness, willingness, and healthy brain cells, and chokes up all your blood vessels.
worst of all, it just drives me totally bonkers.
not everything has to be so difficult to do and to overcome! can't they just relax?? (as much as i hate to say this and avoid saying so)
perfectionist, idealist, dreamer.... whatever!
i believe all good decisions and discussions (business or not) are made calmly. so that you can think clearly.
yes of course you can disagree (duh!), and you can most definitely (and should!) voice out your opinions, comments, suggestions etc.
BUT not with such screwed up facial expressions, tense brain muscles, shrieky voice tones, and negatively loud reactions, all of which do not offer any constructive viewpoints or contribute to decision-making at all.
please be more positive, open-minded and open-hearted. please!
if you can't smile, then let it be a thinking look, pondering look, doubtful look, or just plain expressionless!
why make simple things and life so hard for yourself, and others???
why don't you just take a gun and shoot me whenever i open a discussion or tell you my decision?? and i thought i was "da boss"!!?
sheesh!!
end of rant. since i can't (and don't) scream in real person, i thought i could at least just let it out here.
and don't worry, my holiday mood ain't getting affected